Every divorcing or single Dad knows of story after story of men who never get to see their kids, and get treated like their only purpose in life is to be a walking bank for their ex. We can not even tell you the number of female inquiries for legal services that start with, "I need a no holds barred lawyer that will get me full custody so I can move away. Dad is no good and doesn't need to see them, but he better pay me" It's excruciating to still see this in such a modern and progressive society. Thankfully, courts are catching up and catching on the the scheme of false accusation's and a vicious ex attempts to keep Dads and their children separated to inflict punishment on Dad because Mom says so. These are the blurred lines we as attorneys have to toe in order to seek justice and serve the best interests of your children, even when their own mother has lost sight of it.
To safeguard fathers' visitation rights during parenting time and in their personal lives, it's essential to adhere to the terms outlined in the custody agreement or court order. Consistent communication with the co-parent is key, as any modifications to the visitation schedule should be mutually agreed upon and documented. Fathers should maintain a detailed record of visitation dates, times, and any deviations from the agreed-upon schedule. This documentation can serve as crucial evidence in the event of disputes or legal proceedings. Thankfully, there's an App for that! (Checkout My Family Wizard)
Additionally, fathers should prioritize the child's well-being and foster a positive co-parenting relationship, as this can contribute to a more cooperative atmosphere and reduce the likelihood of visitation conflicts. Striking a balance between personal life and parenting responsibilities is crucial, and fathers should strive to create an environment that supports the child's emotional needs during visitation periods. Clear and respectful communication with the co-parent, adherence to legal agreements, and prioritizing the child's best interests are key strategies for protecting fathers' visitation rights.
If you are facing custody challenges let us know what you are facing so we can help you determine your best path forward. You have rights and we are here to help you fight!.